Phobias and Fears can Control your Life and your Home
Business.
Some problems are easier to overcome than others when
starting anything new and especially true when it comes to
starting a business online. I’ve come to realize a ton of
things in my years of being active on the Internet about
these fears and phobias that are the causes of Internet
Failure. I understand most of them because I have felt them
all and even more than the ones discussed here.
People let their many Phobias and Fears control their life
with feelings of doubt and it discourages them in starting
their Home Business. The primary fear for most people is
that they will fail. The immobilizing fear of failure
makes them say it can’t be done, and they may never even
try it because their fear makes them believe they can’t do
it.
When it comes to an Internet Business, many of us feel that
we lack too many things, including money, confidence,
knowledge, and direction.
Some of the feelings that fuel our fear are: UNCERTAINTY ~
SELF DISTRUST ~ DOUBT ~ SKEPTICISM SUSPICION ~ MISTRUST…
these are a few, there are MANY more.
Fear of Losing Money = UNCERTAINTY – The fear of failing
brings uncertainty about their finances and it makes them
afraid they won’t have enough start up capital or that they
will spend too much money and get nothing in return. They
also fear that they will just be wasting their time and then
it becomes not just about losing money, it’s the loss of
time as well.
Fear of Inadequate Self-Confidence = SELF DISTRUST – When an
opportunity arises, as in starting a business, some people
fear that they are not going to be good enough or smart
enough to make a success of anything. This is especially
true when their self esteem is already at a low point.
Taking a stand against negative thoughts about themselves is
the first step and then they must rewrite the inner
’scripts’ that have come to believe and turn negative
thinking into positive.
Fear of having Incomplete Knowledge = SELF DOUBT – They are
afraid they won’t know how to be successful because a lack
of knowledge in the business that they chose. They may not
know which system to promote, where to begin, who will help
them, and of all these “guru millionaires”, which one to
listen to ~ That brings up the importance of an Honest
Mentor — (see below)
Fear of Friends and Family Opinions = SKEPTICISM – No one
wants to be ridiculed by the people that they trust the
most. They imagine that their friends would say negative
things because of the belief they may have in their minds
that people don’t make money doing this… whatever it is.
That should truly be incentive for them to be even more
determined to prove them wrong!
Fear of trusting the wrong people = MISTRUST – Lack of an
Honest Mentor – (or finding one that they trust) can cause
fear that they will get taken or ripped off. There are so
many self proclaimed “millionaires” on the web that
seemingly know ‘everything’ about making a living
online… Our minds naturally have SUSPICION when it is
implied that someone knows “everything” and have these
“secrets” that they want to share with you and make you a
millionaire too.
The reality is that most people are afraid of “doing it
wrong” the first time out…because nobody likes to try
something and fail. Fear of failure can be devastating to
any business and especially when you have family and friends
looking over your shoulder… It just seems like with
Internet Businesses, especially, people are just waiting for
you to fail in your endeavor!
The bottom line is that the number one reason people fail is
because of fears and phobias, and mainly their fear of
failure…
How can you get past it all and succeed anyway?
You’ll have to find an approach for you to mentally relieve
the anxiety and stress over your life. Take some actions
to not allow these uncomfortable thoughts to rule your life,
and please realize that proven solutions do exist. Anxiety
and Phobias are the mind’s indicators that we are probably
making things more important than they really are. To put it
simply, you have to have faith in your ideal outcome and
don’t let your mind stray from what your ideal outcome
will provide in your life and your business.
Let me end by saying that many people will never earn to
their full potential because the fear rules their lives and
sabotages their business opportunities… Don’t be
controlled by fear and take matters into your own hands and
mind. Take the reins and drive this thing all the way to
the place that you want to be in life. Be determined and
don’t give up because most people quit right on the brink
of their success, never even knowing what could have been
for them. Never realizing their dreams.
As quoted by Eleanor Roosevelt: We gain strength, and
courage, and confidence by each experience in which we
really stop to look fear in the face … we must do that
which we think we cannot.
Author Bio: Melanie Ferguson specializes in honestly
informing people of the possibilities available in achieving
large monthly incomes online and assists them in being
successful. If you would like a free report and online tour
detailing exactly how you can be making $5,000 to $10,000 a
month starting in the next 45 days or less, please visit her
site: http://secrets4makingcash.com
She is also a trusted counselor in home based
opportunities in the mortgage industry, as she has been an
Indiana Licensed Mortgage Broker for the past 8 years. She
will be happy to train and mentor you to gain a successful
home business that provides a substantial monthly income.
Please email her if you are interested in knowing more.
MkFutureFunding@yahoo.com Discover exactly how to make
quick easy money online today!!
